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Hello Mimansa, It's Feb 2022 on this side and I am writing to you in 2017, I just want to let you know a few things before you plan your wedding with that cute guy you are dating these days. I know you are pretty serious about him and he also wants to take the relationship to another level but before you freeze the dates, Please read below. Postpone marriage: Just because the weddings are very exciting, Don't simply jump into this commitment. Build yourself first. Design the life of your choice. Explore your potential to the fullest. Establish yourself to an extent that later on, you don't have to alter your choices as per circumstances. Till you don't find yourself at this stage postpone the big day. Believe me, you will thank me. Understand marriages generally are not equal: In Indian households, a woman's role is prominent. Women do chores as their 'duty' and men seldom contribute to chores as 'help'. In no time will your career become secondary,

I remember, as a child I always wanted to be a mother. I loved mothering my dolls just like how my mother took care of me. Moreover My mother had very powerful influence in my life. Honestly she was the only one who took whole lot of efforts in my upbringing. I have seen her in that process. Believe me, in those days I remember she was like a lioness and would go to any extent to protect me. She was a young lady who got her education and was building her own life. God knows from where she got so much strength and courage to cope with challenges that life threw at her. She had absolutely no support with chores or finances to raise a baby but she did everything on her own. Certainly I admired her the most and wondered whether motherhood can change people. In short there was this hidden calling in me to embark the journey of motherhood, to experience the nature's great plan (reproduction). On 5th July 2021, We were blessed with a baby boy and since then life has changed in all sorts o

 Affirmations can turn out to be miraculous if one practice it regularly. What can be better than expressing love to your own self on this Valentine's Day! Listing affirmations that help me accept me as myself and strengthens my belief in myself 1.  I am much more than my relationships, my education qualifications, my profession and my CTC. I have a lot to offer the World and will always try my best.  2. I always have choices. I have courage to access those choices. The only approval I need is my own 3. I have energy and strength to get through an unfavorable phase. I can see light at the end of the tunnel.  4. I am self sufficient as an individual. I am happiest in my own company and my happiness is my  responsibility.  5. My physical and mental health is my foremost priority. I treat myself with abundant love and care. I am experiencing pink of my health. Minor health issues are under treatment and in my control.  6. I am considerate of my struggles and my journey to this day. I

 Hello Mommies,  let me take this opportunity to share with you three baby products I can't do without. Also I must tell you using these products make my life so easy. Hoping that this will help you also.  1. Luvlap breast milk pump : I went back to work when my baby was five and half months old. Ladies at my office keep asking me about how his feeds are managed in my absence. I tell them that I use a manual pump which really surprises them. Next question arises about shelf life of pumped breast milk. They think that pumped breast milk will go stale in few minutes. But reality is that breast milk can last 6 hours without refrigerating and 24 hours in refrigerator. In deep freeze breast milk can last for 1 month. So chuck all these myths use a pump to manage baby's feeds in your absence so that you can go to your work carefree about baby's nutritional needs.  If you are short on time and don't want to use manual pump check out  electric pump as well. Both the pumps fro