Falling in love with imperfections

I live with almost a million problems residing in me. Right from considering scarcity of hair on my scalp to short term memory. When I was a kid, I had issues with almost everything in me. my appearance, my low grades in school, my unorganized small house, my scientist (exceptionally whimsical) father.... the list is really lengthy. while growing up, I realized that no matter whatever I'll do to get rid of things I don't like, I have to accept some facts (like I can't change the grades of my science paper in class 5) and considering those irreversible events, I should learn to move on with utmost positivity. Nothing should stir my inner peace. To practice this attitude for just 10% events which take place in my life, it took me 15 long years and I'm still learning to accept the things the way they are. So far I've not been able to accept the appearance of reptiles (snake, frog, lizards). I still have a complaint against nature about their extremely ugly appearance. :-P

Yet I have started seeing beauty in everything. I now accept every new change (good/bad) in life. I now accept everyone around me, the way they are without being judgmental. Building this attitude taught me to live with almost no complaints and expectations. I really feel happy inside with almost everything happening around me. I now love my father more than anyone else in this world. I love my house and sometimes I edit my pictures to make it look a bit good on social networking sites. :-P

People have truly quoted.. "nothing can be perfect", "Chaand pe bhi daag he (ugly lunar craters on extremely beautiful moon )", "Beauty lies in the eyes".. etc etc.

#Feeling_Of_Finding_KeyToHappiness.

* I have used 'almost' many times above, just to justify nothing can be perfect, complete, 100% accurate. One has to identify 'perfectness in imperfections', 'completeness in incompleteness' and '100% accuracy in 99.999999% or whatever'.

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