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Mysterious Girl: Bharti

Girls generally love being in company of friends or family. But being only kid to my parents and that too in a nuclear family, I formed an habit of living alone and enjoy being with myself.  I’ve rarely met people who appreciate beauty of solitude. Bharti is one such person. We have this trait in common.  This common attribute makes her more special to me because many times it feels like I can resonate with her feelings. Other attribute which impresses me alot is, her feminist approach. She expresses her opinions fearlessly, if someone dares to give her advices like; Girls should/shouldn’t do that/this.  She is a staunch believer of the fact that a girl/woman needs no instruction set to lead her life.  And I’ve always appreciated free thinking girls.

Many people believe that humour is not the genre, well handled by Girls. Meet Bharti if you think so. She has extremely good sense of humour and her satires on life, always deserves a big round of applause.  I am really going to miss those uncountable ROFL moments with her.

She possesses very high IQ and EQ (Emotional Quotient) Levels. She is very clear with the concepts and fundamentals of physics (Far better than me atleast). And I’ve seen that twinkle in her eyes when she talks about theoretical physics and doing research. She owns a ‘physicist’ brain and I think she is on this planet only to become a scientist. Mathematical Physics is her strength and she has always solved the numerical problems for me to submit with assignments.  Sometimes she talks in codes making it difficult for others to understand what she is saying. One must have high EQ level to figure out what she wants to convey.  That is the reason why I’ve used word ‘mysterious’ for her. She is full of shades. I don’t think one can ever describe her in few set of words and I don’t think I understand her enough... but I’ve tried to maintain utmost precession in my description of what I know about her.  
   
She takes relationships seriously and people whom she loves are really important to her. She equally reciprocates when somebody wants to be her good friend. She is very patient in listening to others. And so far I have not seen her talking to anyone rudely, not even in any of her bad moods. She is extremely careful about not hurting others feelings. That is the reason why she is favourite amongst us.

Bharti does everything in her own style and mostly better than many of us but she is always doubtful about displaying her skills. She is extremely grounded and has no trace of air in her head about her skills and achievements (atleast she never showcases it publically). I’ve never heard her bragging about herself. She is very clear in her head what she wants and her personality displays slowly- gradually- win- the- race attitude

She is unique also in terms of her appearance and dressing. Mostly she is clad in ethnic clothes which showcases best example of ‘Modernity has no relation with what one wears’. I love her big – glasses (nerdy) look and her appearance reflects her job (physicist :P).  She is extremely pretty and  has stunned us many times by transforming herself from a studious geek to The Diva.

She loves food and is always ready to experiment with new dishes. She is a regular appreciator of my cooking experiments (good /bad) which always motivates me to try other new things.. Actually she appreciates me in whatever I do. In short.. She loves me – I Love her. Story Ends :-*

May you shine with brilliance, Bharti... All the best

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